Why Does He Cause You Pain?

Why does he offend your sensibilities? Why would it seem like he is unconcerned with your emotions or how badly he has affected you? He has seen the harm he has caused, he has seen you weep and get angry, and still, he continues to do what he thinks causes you pain. After everything you\’ve been through and done with him, why does he want to harm your feelings? Would this imply that he doesn\’t love you or that your emotions are unimportant to him?

To begin with, there are likely to be broken feelings in every given partnership. It is up to the pair to talk about and express what happened, learn from it, recover from it, and move on. That is common in all relationships. Hurt feelings occur.