How to Dry Hump Properly

Have you attempted a dry hump in a long time? That was most likely the initial exposure to sexual intercourse while you were still in high school. You’ve probably progressed to penetrative sex back then.

But dry humping isn’t all for teenagers. Dry humping is effective because it feels sweet. And, even though the school hallways are a little historic, it may be something you like to try with your new spouse.

 

What Exactly is Dry Humping?

Dry humping is a sexual event, but it is non-penetrative intercourse because it is dry sex. This implies that there is discomfort, tension, and grazing of both partners’ private parts, but the clothes remain on, especially down there.

Another explanation for dry humping is referred to as dry sex is because nobody’s fluids are exchanged.

 

What’s The Point of Dry Humping? 

Without penetrating, intimacy

There are many explanations for why dry humping is beneficial. For starters, if you and your partner are still getting to know each other, you might not want to jump right into penetrative sex. However, you can always want to get personal and intimate at any stage.

Dry humping will serve as a decent halfway point. According to Toni Nagy, a Huffington Post blogger, dry humping “honors the involvedness of intimacy, allowing you time to figure out how you feel about each other, but also leaves plenty to build up to.”

 

Sex Without the Possibility of Conception

Technically, and when performed correctly, dry humping is a good alternative to having intercourse – particularly when attempting to prevent conception. This is because conception happens as male semen reaches the vagina, travels up to the uterus, and combines with the female egg.

However, if nobody fluids come into touch, which is normally the case for dry humping, the chances of conception are almost zero.

 

Anything New

As Nagy suggested, dry humping is ideal for people who are only getting to know each other. However, it is still something new to try for your long-term girlfriend.

When sex becomes monotonous and predictable, it’s a smart idea to shake things up and try something different. And if dry humping is a thing of the past for you, it will always be romantic for you and your new spouse.

Is dry humping more pleasurable for women?

 

Is Dry Humping more Pleasurable for Women?

About the fact that penetrative sex is the standard, it is generally more stimulating for the man than for the woman. Clitoral stimulation is necessary for a woman to orgasm.

And, indeed, even without penetration, the rubbing and discomfort that comes with dry humping can be quite relaxing for a woman.

But don’t worry, the guys will have a good time as well. It will relieve them of the obligation to follow many of the sex expectations that culture and other men keep them too.

 

How to Dry a Hump in a Discreet Manner

When dry humping, there are a few items to bear in mind to ensure that it is comfortable, painless, and clean.

  • Keep an eye out for snaps, buckles, ties, and zippers. All of the rubbings are pressing and grinding will irritate and possibly harm the skin.
  • Condoms should also be worn to further deter the spread of STIs.
  • Even if the genitals are covered during dry humping, applying lubricant may be beneficial. This tends to reduce discomfort caused by all of the friction.
  • To avoid crying in the vaginal region, avoid aggressive dry humping. Tears not only sting, but they can also render you more prone to infections down there.

 

How to Have Fun When Dry Humping Keep the Focus on the Now

Continue to be in the Parents’ Presence

It’s natural to second-guess yourself and question whether you’re doing everything correctly. And you are the only one. And you tend to worry if your buddy is having as much fun as you are.

Both of these feelings force you out of the current moment, making dry humping less fun and more difficult.

So, please be there in the moment and stick to what you’re doing. This would heighten the intimacy you have with your girlfriend.

 

Wear Loose-fitting Clothing

If jeans are too rugged and zippers are too abrasive toward your sensitive private bits, swap them out for fluffy denim shorts or warm sweatpants. Your companion will do the same. And with the gritty stuff out of the way, there’s a fair chance you’ll be able to orgasm more easily.

 

Make Use of your Urges

What emotions do you want to experience? What makes you happy? When you discover the correct location, action, and volume of pressure, don’t be afraid to replicate it and articulate it.

Often, don’t be shy about telling your mate what works and what doesn’t. After all, you both want the other one to be happy, and contact is the only way to do so.

 

Get Things More Fun by Using Sensual Oils

Why not combine dry humping with a sensual massage? The end aim is simply to improve intimacy in your partnership, and what better way to do so than to fully feel each other’s body?

Incorporate sensual massage oils into your dry humping session to make it more interesting. You should take turns massaging each other to making it a relaxing evening!

To take it a step more, use scented candles to build a romantic atmosphere.

 

Everyone’s Hands are Welcome

And if you keep your clothing on and your genitals covered, you can always touch and rub with your hands and fingertips. There is no such thing as a one-size-fits-all solution. What you do and how you do it is entirely up to you and your partner.

As a result, contact is important. But being courageous and trying is very essential.

 

Make Use of the Whole Body

The genital region is the subject of dry humping. However, you and your companion should use your whole body. So, whether pressing against his leg or using your hands sounds fine, go ahead and do it. In a nutshell, don’t restrict yourself.

 

Bring it to the Sofa

It’s exciting to have romantic times outside of the bedroom. So, why not do the next dry humping session on the couch? Make yourself at home with a blanket and a candle, and just appreciate the sensations you and your companion build together.

There are only a few examples of how you should begin to dry hump with your mate. And if it isn’t penetrative intercourse, it can be thrilling, entertaining, and emotionally fulfilling.