You’ve been married for several years and things have gradually become a bit monotonous? Don’t worry at all because we’re here to help you out! Here are five fresh ideas to spice up your marriage, so check them out and get down to business right away!
Schedule Your ‘Sexy Time’
Yes, we know that this doesn’t seem very romantic or spontaneous. However, scheduling your ‘sexy time’ has numerous benefits you shouldn’t overlook! Firstly, this will ensure that sex still stays a priority in your marriage, no matter how challenging this can become over time. This is particularly true for people who work for 8+ hours and get home exhausted after a long day at work. If that’s the case with you and your partner, you should try scheduling your time for love-making. Even though it will probably feel quite strange in the beginning, you’ll get more and more excited and look forward to every scheduled ‘sexy time’. All you need to do is to add it to your personal calendar (not the professional one). Your phone will remind you ahead of time and allow you to properly prepare for this romantic event!
Recreate Your Favourite Dates
Truth be told, every couple has those several dates they are always happy to look back on. We’re sure that you have at least a couple of remarkable dates you’re still talking about often, right? Well, why wouldn’t you recreate your favourite dates and relive them once again? Date nights should be an important part of your romantic life, no matter for how long you’ve been married. This is because a lot of couples’ relationship dynamics change when they get married. To prevent that, why wouldn’t you organize a date night with your spouse? You can recreate your first date by going to the restaurant, coffee shop, or any other place you visited that day. However, if that isn’t possible, just open a bottle of wine or mix some amazing cocktails at home. It doesn’t matter where you are, as long as you are together and in love!
Upgrade Your Bedroom
Upgrading your bedroom will inevitably spice up your marriage – at least when it comes to the previously mentioned ‘sexy time’. But what does it really mean? Well, first of all, it means that you need to make the necessary changes to your bed. Replace your old, worn-out bed sheets and buy top-quality sheets in your favourite colour. The same goes for pillowcases and duvet covers. However, if you aren’t sure which colour to pick, we highly suggest black. It will significantly contribute to a sexy atmosphere – especially when the lights are off and the entire room is lit by candles. When it comes to bedtime, we must say that you should switch from your casual, baggy PJs to eye-catching sleepwear. Lace is always a good choice, as well as silk and satin. Give them a try every once in a while and you’ll see what we were talking about!
Introduce Some Sex Toys
You probably saw this coming, and we don’t blame you for that. Even though many people think that sex toys are overrated and unnecessary, the fact is that these can be very helpful in the bedroom. First of all, these toys will inevitably spice up your everyday life and encourage you to be more playful and open-minded. Of course, if you don’t feel too comfortable experimenting with some complex sex toys from the start, you should opt for a simple, old-school version instead. For example, ordinary vibrators, anal plugs, and vibrating love rings are always great options. These are very beginner-friendly and easy to use, so you won’t make a mistake if you go for them. Once you master these, you can freely move on to more complex sex toys!
Excite All Your Senses
Spicing up your marriage can be done in multiple ways, and exciting all your senses is just one of them. Although creating a sexy atmosphere is a no-brainer for some people, many other men and women don’t really know how to make it happen. If you’re one of those people who don’t know what to do, just remember that you must engage all five senses. As for the sense of smell, light a scented candle and use it only when you’re about to have sex. When it comes to sound, come up with a sexy playlist. For sight, make your bedroom super cosy and comfy by de-cluttering it and installing dim lights. As for taste, including fresh strawberries, melted chocolate, and whipped cream. And lastly – for touch – we’re sure that you already know what you need to do, right?
As you can tell, there are so many fresh ideas to spice up your marriage. These five are the best ones out there, so bear them in mind and stick to our tips no matter what. Once you do that, we’re sure that you’ll successfully accomplish this goal!