Bondage, and BDSM in general, have been taboo for a long time. Many citizens find it difficult to accept it as a responsible sexual activity. Bondage, on the other hand, is a lot of fun. Is there something wrong with people who like being entangled in sweaty, hungry sex?
Certainly not. And you can if you like to dabble in those naughty adult fetishes and slavery.
BDSM and Bondage are not Pathological Conditions
People believed that BDSM (bondage, discipline, sadism, and masochism) is pathological sexual practice for a long time.
In other terms, if you\’re into BDSM, you have a problem, and it manifests itself in warped sexual acts.
This, though, is not the case. In reality, a 2013 study discovered that couples who pursue consensual BDSM are better off than others. They are more comfortable in their marriages, have fewer fears, and communicate with their friends more effectively. Furthermore, they were doing well in culture.
The only way BDSM is harmful is whether it is not voluntary and causes physical, mental, or psychological damage to the individual(s).
Is it Possible for Slavery to Alter the State of Consciousness?
Not only are BDSM and slavery not pathological, but recent evidence suggests that it could also be a meditative activity that may help people achieve a higher level of consciousness.
What are you talking about?
It is a mystery that people want discomfort at times of extreme gratification, but this is what research has to suggest.
Researchers discovered that people who engage in sadomasochistic experiences have a poorer function in the region of the brain correlated with higher-level tasks such as executive regulation, memory, and decision making.
When people are in pain during sex, blood flow to these areas slows, causing the human to enter a trance-like state.
Is Slavery Similar to Meditation?
Another research looked at people in kink culture. These people had piercings that were then pulled taut. Yes, it induced discomfort and elevated the stress hormone cortisol in their bodies.
Surprisingly, these people often feel less stressed and more connected. Why is this so? Blood supply to a certain region of the brain is believed to decline during these extremely traumatic events. This brain area is associated with the ability to differentiate oneself from others.
When blood flow to this area slows, you have a stronger sense of bonding and oneness with others. That\’s what resulted in these traumatic sexual experiences.
What is Slavery Not?
Yes, studies suggest that consensual and uncomfortable sexual acts will change your mood and make you feel healthy. However, slavery can also be difficult to comprehend.
One explanation for this may be because there are so many theories and stereotypes concerning slavery and BDSM in general. Kink is commonplace after Fifty Shades of Grey, but it is always misunderstood.
To begin with, slavery does not imply physical aggression. Yes, there is dominant and submissive sex, but all people should have the goal of making their spouse happy. Well, one spouse will be the superior one, but only if the other chooses to be submissive.
This leads us to the next step. Bondage unquestionably appeals to the erotic dynamic of domination and obedience. However, it must still be mutual. Even as the dominant partner orders, the submissive partner never acts to make them feel insecure or violated.
In short, the best kind of bonding can occur between partners that have a high level of confidence and connection. And, let\’s be honest, you wouldn\’t want to send to anyone you don\’t trust, would you?
Finally, slavery is not a binary, all-or-nothing condition. We are often led to assume that slavery necessitates the use of whips, hooks, and handcuffs. And, although these things do belong in the BDSM category, they are not required to participate in BDSM.
How you and your spouse approach bonding should be completely up to you and your partnership. What are the limits? What do you feel at ease with? What is your partner at ease with?
Some men do not feel comfortable causing discomfort and having rough sex with their mates, and it is vital not to compel others to indulge in sexual activity in which they are not yet comfortable.
What do you do now that you\’ve Decided to Pursue Bondage?
Don\’t feel afraid to ask questions about slavery. Well, there is a lot of stigmas associated with this form of anatomy, however, there shouldn\’t be. And after you\’ve explored things on your own, you\’ll be able to determine whether or not it\’s right for you.
It may be difficult to know where to begin, so consider the following tips and suggestions when you begin to investigate bondage:
Communication, Communication, Communication!
None is more relevant than discussing your sexual needs and dreams with your mate. Begin slowly and observe how reactive he or she is.
Talking things out will even help you learn about your sexual boundaries, which is what you can do before attempting slavery.
If you try to get your hands on the whips and handcuffs, go for it. But keep in mind that none of these are needed to undergo tantalizing, mind-altering slavery. If you have blankets, scarves, or pillowcases, this would also fit.
Just keep in mind that you and your companion can both know how to connect and tie properly to avoid injuries.
Positions for Hot Bondage Sex
What are decent bondage sex roles for beginners? To begin, imagine being blindfolded. You should even attempt the spread eagle pose when lying down on the bed and have your wife bind your hands to the headboard.
You might even pick a table and have your wife bind your hands and ankles to it. Kneel with your face to the floor for a more difficult rope bondage pass. Allow your mate to bind your wrists and ankles together. It is completely up to you two to decide how to continue from here.
If you want to stand, try tying your wrists above you – may be on a high door hook, the shower rod, or something else at home. The advantage of holding your arms high above is that the long side of your body is exposed to rubbing, licking, scratching, and so forth.
Bondage sex can be a lot of fun. If you plan to give it a shot, do your homework and speak to your partner about it. It has the potential to turn your mundane sex life into something much more fulfilling and exhilarating.